The more versed you are in the art of oral, the more you will tolerate or even enjoy swallowing at this point of performing.
Just like any other skill, being good in bed takes time, practice, and education.
No one is suggesting you go out of your comfort zone just to please some dude.
Overstreet says this also can help the two of you discover which fantasies you may have in common, and if so, which would be easiest to turn into reality.
This is why using your mouth, tongue, and especially throat are so important.
There is nothing better than for your man to look down and see your big eyes looking up at him sensually.
So many people expect sex to be effortless, but it rarely works that way in the real world.
Give him a compliment, tell him your problem, then follow it up with another compliment.
I strongly advocate that all my students should constantly try new things in the bedroom with their man and intersperse these new things with what already works well.
This doesn't mean you have to be insanely gross about it.