Even though you may be keen to get down to business, your anus may not be.
There are powerful taboos surrounding the various types of anal sex — and particularly anal intercourse.
Many gay men enjoy penetrative anal sex.
The muscles around this area may start contracting automatically.
That's why finding time to relax beforehand is important.
And if you're the one who's not interested tonight or at alldon't ever perform anal sex because you feel like you should or sexy ghetto ass have to, Glickman adds.
Don't worry about disappointing him by wanting to go slow and gently.
But if you have a lot of blood, or ongoing pain, give your doctor a call.