Since you've already pushed her away with your initial actions, it's best to simply back off for now and give her some space by going into no contact.
I just taught you what to say to her when it comes to text messages but you can only go so far when it comes to text messages.
And because this is tough and a misstep at this level might cost you everything, I have tried to make this transition appear as normal as possible.
You look confident, sexy, fun and attractive.
Smart Relationship Advice.
So, great article by the way.
You can even skip the hand written letter and move on directly to text messages.
Read this more detailed article on getting your ex back with text messages.
Your instinct fool you into thinking that your interaction with your ex will go something like this.