Can you have a happy relationship with an insecure man?
However, when she comes back to her man he angrily engages his girlfriend punishing her positive behavior of dismissing the would-be suitor and pulverizes her with question after question on what was discussed.
They may come off as scary, loud and obnoxious, but in most cases, they are nothing more than an insecure man.
Another example is a man that physically abuses his wife or rapes a woman.
You could fly through the air while shouting, "He loves me!
Or does he defend his unreasonable displays of snooping, jealousy and criticism, blaming them on you and something you did?
Her mission is to help people love harmoniously and successfully.
A more effective way for him to stop being insecure is for him to deal with it on his own.
So, you do have the option of playing by his rules and assuring him that he is secure with you.
He insists that in every past relationship, he was the innocent victim.
No one likes to be criticized, but insecure people take even the kindest, most constructive criticism really badly.