Gently move your hands around her waist or shoulders, but don't start groping her in inappropriate places or she'll get uncomfortable.
If neither of you can host, only hook up in five-star hotels.
I think I could use a workout.
Make her feel special.
Gay bathhouses are just trashy, and you might run into a gossip queen or a popular scenester if you go, which would be breaking two hookup rules.
Avoid good friends.
The guy you like has to be sexually attracted to you and has to crave for your lustful touch if you want him to do your bidding.
Hold them close, and move your hands as needed to adjust angles.
Once you've finished hooking up with the guy for the night, make sure you have a smooth exit.
Do not use too much cologne - it can easily become overpowering.
Jerry gave me the hook up with those backstage passes.