We downloaded a BDSM checklist and established our soft and hard limits, and he asked me to explain what I could offer him in a relationship.
Such scenes could involve any kind of exchange of power.
However, keep in mind that you will have more emotional sway over submissive women.
I am actively negotiating the terms of my relationship based on my wants and needs.
I took me a while to get my head round it all and it involved much talking.
If you want to read more about different practices and how to do them, then there are lots of good books available about BDSM.
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Over Skype, he'll watch me get close to orgasm and make me stop.
I became uncharacteristically needy, and it pushed him away.