One minute he is saying that I can take my time and figure out what I want, then the next he is all depressed and talking about wanting to die and then he is trying to rush me into making a decision.
We spent several days together last week while my daughter was away and had the best time.
We tried counseling, but the pastor was inconsistent and so was my husband.
Dwelling like this simply causes us to suffer.
So i decided to do my own recovery from all the things that destroyed my marriage.
He deleted the account that I found all of this stuff on.
Eventually, I opted to end the marriage because I was clearly happier without him than I was with him.
Then comes bargaining:
I just know there has to be more to all of this.
This kind of contemptuous interaction is especially hurtful when done to purposefully embarrass or belittle a partner in front of friends and family.
One of the most important components of a partnership is the support you get from—and give to—your loved one.
If you walk away too early, you might regret it.